It never occurred to me that I could "edit" my answers on those surveys. I just answer everything truthfully. Dork.
It also never occurred to me that I don't HAVE to meet with the social worker. Mr. Peeveme said I should just refuse to meet with her. When she calls I will politely decline the offer and explain why. A glass of wine with dinner before I was pregnant is not a risk factor. It's just not.
I'm such a rule follower those things just never occur to me.
And thanks for all your reassurance the other day. Just a momentary lapse of reason.